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Forget the bedroom routine you have been experiencing and make your erotic life an exciting one. Explore different sex styles, adult toys, erotic costumes and other novelties to spice up your sexlife.
Maybe your sex life is stuck in a routine, similar day in and day out. Perhaps you feel the need to spice things up but you are not sure exactly how to do that.
Tips to spice up your sex today
Steps to experience great sex and sensuality
- Don’t make sex, make love!
You probably had a busy day today at work or with your family or your kids. But when you finally finished everything and you had a chance to rest, you will look forward to be with your partner and have an exciting and sensual experience. Remember that the day might have ended but the night has just begun. And believe me, we definitely need our sexual desires to be satisfied for our mental health, to make love and feel every bit of it.
- Take your time
To make sex better for both of you, prepare an environment where you can focus and relax. Take away all the distractions, forget your responsibilities like your work, your kids and your daily tasks.
- Set a good mood and relax
Ignite the fire slowly. Orgasm alone is empty when there’s no deeper connection or intention associated with it. Try touching each other with sensuality, this will slowly increase excitement and help each other to relax.
You can do an erotic massage and explore erogenous zones such as shoulders, scalp, ears, belly, inner thighs, etc. Try experimenting with speed or pressure that will increase excitement and make you both ready to have great sex.
- Use your tongue during sex
Your tongue is such a magical part of your body when used well during sex. It is self-lubricating and sensual. From sensual talks, kissing and licking, your tongue will awake your feelings with a lot of sensuality.
- Watch erotic movies
If you haven’t already tried watching erotic movies, today is the right time. Try to watch an erotic or sexy movie, it will excite you both and will ignite your sex life.
Here is another way you can explore more about giving your partner or yourself a great sex
By reading sexual guide books and magazines you are encouraged to give your partner or yourself a better experience. The idea is to make sex an ultimate relief that recharges your energy and gives positive vibes.
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Another tip when you are exploring your body using sex toys and novelties
You would never replace a real partner using these amazing sex gadgets but it can be a way to discover sensual behaviour of your body. Sex Toys will definitely help your sexual pleasure and are scientifically conceived for sensual satisfaction. A lot of sex toys are designed to hit the right pleasure spots of your body.
First you can ask your partner to relax, especially the woman. Bringing adult toys into your lovemaking creates opportunity for her to really open up sexually while taking pressure off you to be the sole provider — especially if she likes extended play.
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