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If your sex life is getting a bit monotonous or you are starting to loose interest don’t despair, there are ways to reignite the passion and find that erotic pleasure you have been wanting to experience or have experienced before. It is normal for many couples to get into a sexual routine or even stop having sex after they have been together for some time.

So how do you spice up your erotic life and make sex more interesting?

Well, there are many options such as erotic toys for couples, trying our suggested sex styles that we considered to be the best sex positions and other solutions, so read on…

Sex is an important part of our life

Sex is part of life that gives intimacy, pleasure and has a lot of benefits, here are some of them:

• Lower blood pressure
• Better immune system
• Better heart health, possibly including lower risk for heart disease
• Improved self-esteem
• Decreased depression and anxiety
• Increased libido
• Immediate and natural pain relief
• Better sleep
• Increased intimacy with your sexual partner
• It reduces stress at a physiologically and emotional level

Excitement with erotic movies

When you watch erotic movies together it will freshen things up. Imagine those sex scenes in erotic movies, they will trigger excitement and turn you both on. It will be a lot fun to explore those uncommon positions you see in the movie and they will give you a new experience and excitement.

We also wrote about sex novelties that you find in this article.

Role-playing during sex

Role-playing is about pretending being someone else express your desires with your partner. It is a fun way to try all those things you dreamt about, especially getting experimental with your sex and emotional life. Some couples might pretend to be strangers meeting for the first time, or they could pretend to be a doctor and a nurse, a pilot and the stewardess, a shy boy and a naughty girl…

Role-playing will allow you to explore different personalities, temperaments and ways of expressing yourself sexually. In our shop LifeOnFlame you will find the best erotic toys for couples to explore and achieve sexual pleasure.

Trying bondage gear

Tying up your partner may sound a little weird but it’s definitely exciting. Your partner will be turned on by the idea of giving up control of the body and delivering to you. Discovering bondage play in a loving relationship and experiencing new sensations together will bring you both closer and build trust that goes way beyond the bedroom. 

Experience a more intense sex

Gentle, intimate and passionate sex is what most of the couples ever wanted but it could get boring. Have you thought about changing the sensations and getting a little more intense with your partner?

Intense sex is a great way to turn on your relationship. Just make sure that your partner is open to this idea and you both will enjoy.

Masturbate yourself in front of your partner

Masturbating in front of your partner will allow her/him to see you enjoy pleasure. Masturbation alone has numerous health benefits like improving mood and relieving stress, which is a great beginning or foreplay for more sex. Once you know what helps you achieve orgasm, you can ask your partner to participate…

Let’s talk about the G-spot, how to explore it and obtain an intense orgasm. First insert one or two fingers, explore and press slowly around your vagina’s front wall, go a bit deep. You will find a slightly ridged spot that provokes an urge to urinate. Memorise that location and go urinate then try to find it again. This time ignore the ‘must urinate feeling’ and keep stimulating, that sensation will increase into orgasm. Once you have experienced this show it to your partner.

How about doing mutual masturbation? You and your partner lying side-by-side and masturbating together at the same time. Erotic sex toys for couples will help you achieve an intense experience and repeated orgasms.

New exciting sexual positions

Have you been sticking to the same one or two positions for many years? Trying out new sex positions is pretty much the spice of sex life. It may not be so comfortable but it can change a lot. Touching parts that you have never explored will help you discover the best sex positions that you have never tried and imagined. There are many different sex positions and some of them can be a huge turn-on for couples.

We will explain here some of the most common sexual positions that you will love to try out with your partner and achieve exceptional erotic pleasure and desire.

Doggy Style

The basic doggy style position needs the person to kneel on all fours. Then, the person penetrating gets behind and insert their penis into the vagina or anus. Another style is to lie down flat on the stomach and putting a pillow under the hips, this position can sometimes make for a more pleasurable experience. One more variation of doggy style is experience standing position, then bend over slightly, holding onto a wall for support. Some consider this style as the best sex position but it’s highly dependent to the couple’s preference.

Cowgirl Style

It requires a penis and vagina, in other words, a man and woman. However, with the right set of accessories any gender paired could work. But the key for a comfortable cowgirl is getting the angle right. Cowgirl style needs the person with the penis to lie down with their legs straight, while the person receiving penetration kneels on top with their legs out to either side of the person lying down. The partners face each other.

Do the 69 Style

Doing 69 is the act of two people simultaneously giving each other oral sex. While lying next to each other head-to-foot, each partner pulls themselves close so they can mutually give themselves oral sex stimulating each other.

Spooning

Spooning is of great intimacy. It is a perfect combination of cuddling and sex. It is lying on your side and wrap your partner in a big hug, with your arm resting over their waist. Or, if you are the little spoon, your partner will be hugging you.

Missionary with a pillow

If missionary is your preferred position the you can take it to the next level by placing a pillow under your booty and positioning your legs over his shoulders. Place a pillow or two under the hips or buttocks during missionary-style sex to deepen penetration. This helps her to feel comfortable and to reach a climax as the male (or woman) penetrates deeper. You can also place a pillow underneath her chest during doggie style sex to give her more stability to push back from.

Missionary with legs up

It’s one of the sexiest and the best sex position. It allows you to look deeply into each other’s eyes which can be really arousing leading to greater and mutual pleasure.

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As you see there are definitely a lot of interesting ways to spice up your sex life, go for it and stay safe…