Truth about sex, fantasies and sex couples secrets

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Learn about different sexual fantasies most sex couples want to try

A lot of sex couples are not talking openly about their sexual fantasies because of fear of judgment. Our fantasies do not define or reflects our whole self, they are just a part of us that involves our sexual desires. Sexual desires feeds our curiosity in trying things that are out of the ordinary and exciting sex romances are limitless and fun to explore.

Take Control or Not?

If you want to take control when you are making love, remember that sometimes submission can be a lot more exciting during sex. In domination and submission, one of the most important part is that it should be consensual.

The movie ’50 Shades of Grey’ gave the general public some good examples about domination and submission, one has full control and the other receive the fetishes that the dominant fantasises. It shows us that rough sex can be an option to explore and will memorable for the couple.

This kind of practices gives you the possibility to release all your sexual energy and experience maximum pleasure.

Let us explore role playing

Sometimes we fantasize scenarios in our life that we want to take to the next level, emotionally and sexually! For example, we fantasize about situations like being held hostage, to be with someone in uniform or someone who is a prince (or princess), situations like that makes us feel excited and wanting to experience emotional and sexual pleasure.

We then take our fantasies to the bedroom and share it with our partner to realise them. It gives more excitement, improves our emotional and sex life and allows us to imagine and incarnate a different person. There are a lot of possibilities in fetish fantasies that you would want to try and it only depends on what interests you more.

Threesome, Foursome or Group Sex

Are two partners really better than one? Some couples desires involve having sex with two or more partners. Well, the hard part about this fantasy is that you need to persuade other persons to be able to put this in action. Having only three persons can be tricky because there is a need to perform better and give equal attention to both. It is a situation that requires good communication skills to perform. However in group sex, it can never be too crowded, right? There are a lot of options for you to try. Apart from your sexual desires, open-mindedness should always be present.

The feeling of being empowered and being cared for is what most people seek and that group sex is giving them, also a good time to explore your own sexuality.

Choosing whether you want to do this with your partner or with a stranger is all up to you. Couples use threesomes to ignite the fire in their hot sex romance and invite someone to help them. They usually look around their friends and over the internet to find someone who is willing to do it with them.

Sometimes, unexpected situations like this happen not only on the screen but also in real life.

A Public Place as an Aphrodisiac

Is having sex in public a punishable? You must be careful, in some state or country their law punishes public sex activities. We all know that doing the act in public places lets you feel different – excitement, fear of getting caught and the fact that you are eventually observed. A lot of people find it thrilling having sex in public places because it improves their sexual desires. Public places seems to be a stimulant to some people, this is why they choose to have hot sex romance outside rather than doing it in the privacy of their own home.

Sex in public doesn’t necessarily mean doing it outside, it can be in a cafe, restaurant, store, etc. – Anywhere that is open to the public. This seems very common nowadays because the present generation and mindset are more adventurous than the past generations. They are not afraid of exploring their sexuality and their freedom.

Sleeping with a stranger/ on night stand

One night stand. This is when we fantasize of having a great sexual connection with someone who happens to be a stranger (or someone who is a friend) you met in a bar or somewhere else. Normally there is no need to know each other as long as the sexual tension is there.

Unhappiness in the couple or sex deprivation is one of the reasons why people go for a one-night stand. They want to clear their mind and forget about the pain in their emotional or sexual life. Or they are the type of person who doesn’t want to get attached to someone and just want to have fun or do something different. And it is nobody’s business as long as you are practicing safe sex to protect yourself.

Be careful, one-night stands can be tricky because on some occasions, feelings start to flourish even if we don’t want to. So you better be careful with your heart, one night stand can be fun until your feelings get involved.

Lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender

Let’s admit it, even if we are not lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBTQ), we occasionally having sexual thoughts about doing it with the same sex gender. It’s not like we want to get involved in a serious relationship but just the curiosity of having intercourse with the same sex gender makes it a little sexier. It gives you a sense of freedom and openness that widens your perspective about your sexuality.

It does not necessary mean that the person is lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender if they go beyond the thought and just want try it out and experiment sexual activities with people of their own sex or of the opposite sex (or both). It is just as simple as having the desire for something that is out of your everyday routine – it gives excitement to your emotional and sex life.

How to look sexier in bed and be the hottest sex couple

Wear sexy underwear

Without a doubt, the most effortless way to be sexy or feel sexy is by wearing lingerie. If we think of lingerie, a woman in a sexy outfit will come to our mind and do not forget that we also have sexy lingerie for men.

Wearing sexy lingerie makes you feel absolutely seductive and increases excitement. It makes you feel good about your body – you will perform better if you feel that way. Never underestimate the power of a sexy wardrobe in bed and in general, it will make sex couples experiencing emotions and sex like never before.

Stay fresh and clean

Before you go experiencing your hot sex romance, you need and want to feel fresh and clean and of course smell great. You will not only please your partner’s eyes with those sexy lingerie but also please his senses of smell and presence with your inviting scent that will make your partner go intense.

Having good hygiene has always been an important part of seduction. Apart from some specialised products or procedures you need the basics like soap and water, forget about perfume, it will just cover up the pheromones released by the body that interacts with your partner and creates the animal and instinctive desire…

Keep that sensual smile

Smiling is very effective in showing your interest or affection from someone you know or close to you. Seductive behaviour and a sensual smile will send sexual attraction between you and your partner. By doing this, it makes you feel in control and it sends signals to your partner that you want her (him) and are attracted by her (him).

Do not be shy and talk provocative while having sex

Provocative talking is not really easy for everyone but anyone can do it if you start to explore it. You do not have to overthink it – just do it at your own pace and it will just come out naturally. Just make sure that you are both comfortable with provocative talking. You can start with, “I’m so wet/hard” or “I need to feel you right now!” or “I want you to cum in me”, say whatever you desire your partner to do. Complement each other, enjoy the experience and just have fun with your partner.

Take charge and be in control

Your partner doesn’t like to take charge all the time. Do the initiative and surprise him/her with mind blowing hot sex romance.

How to feel sexy and confident in the bedroom

Here are some steps you need to feel confident and sexy in the bedroom as much as possible, you should appreciate being together regardless of your physical state.

Give yourself the permission to be sexyTake it easy with yourself and be sexy. If you make it a habit of allowing yourself to be sexy, it will happen naturally over time, practice as much as possible.
Love your naked bodyIt is important to first love yourself to really feel sexy – love every part of your body. Nothing compares to the love you can give to your own body. You were created that way so you might as well love and cherish it, right? Loving your own naked self will make you feel confident in every way possible.
And please accept yourself as you are, sex couples should appreciate being naked together regardless of perceived ‘imperfections’.
Dress sexyIf you feel you are looking good, this will reflect on your partner. A piece of nice clothing will make you feel confident and makes you feel sexy. Whatever clothing you wear, important is that you feel comfortable.
Use sex toysIf you’re not used to this, allow yourself to explore. You will discover that they will bring your bedroom experience to the next level.
Expore what kind of sex toys you and your partner are comfortable using. There is a large variety to choose from, dildos, vibrators, butt plugs, cock rings, bionic bullets, etc. So you need to be open-minded and communicate.

Tips to keep your sexual relationship healthy

Your presence as a partner

You as a sex couple, need to make an effort to let your partner feel that you are physically and sexually invested to have sexual relations.

Stay connected through open communication

Be true to yourself and your partner, whether you experiencing a one-night stand or in a lasting relationship. Learn to communicate – know each other’s limitations and stop whenever you feel uncomfortable. You will learn to explore erotic zones in your partner and yourself that intensifies your sexual experiences, be open about what turns you on, this will take you both to an improved sexual experience. This way you can compromise and experiment.

Couples who are not honest or straightforward about what they want, do not really enjoy sex and end up unsatisfied.

Being sensual and nurturing it

If you are having sex don’t just stop there. Never stop teasing and seducing, this will keep the flame burning. Maintaining regularly physical contact like kissing and hugging will nurture your sexual experiences and it keeps your mind relaxed so that intimacy is lasting.

Explore and discover your sexuality as a couple

The human body contains a lot of areas that you can explore and discover to maintain excitement and pleasure. Never hesitate to explore your partner’s body and of course let your partner explore you too. You will discover a lot from each other on how to improve your sexual relationship.

Trust each other

I know it sounds obvious but it is okay to let your partner feel you vulnerability. He will know you better, how to touch you with care, you will appreciate that, and this will give you the freedom to receive all the pleasure you deserve. Let your partner make you feel experience hot sex romance satisfaction at its best. Let your partner show you how committed he/she is in satisfying you. This will help you both develop a certain bond that only the two of you have.

Enjoy